Dear Parentverse: I Forbid My Middle-Schooler From Using Social Media. How Do I Get Her School to Back Me Up?

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Dear Parentverse: My 11-year-old daughter has a flip phone for emergencies, but I haven’t let her use a smartphone, because I don’t think she should be on any social media. However, her friends all seem to have their own smartphones and are using TikTok and Instagram constantly, and she says they are pressuring her to join them. What I really want to do is ask the middle school to send a note to all the parents emphasizing that social media at this age is a terrible idea that will only lead to bullying and jealousy. Is that over the top?